Relationships are like tandem riding.
appreciating each other as separate but connected,
talking as you cycle along,
learning to lead and also to follow,
Swapping roles when one of you gets tired or cold.
I have been working with couples throughout my counselling career. Some of the main areas are learning to communicate more effectively, negotiation, learning how to do the businees of marriage/couples (finances, time management, sharing house hold tasks, caring for children, holidays), discovering how to relax again together and learning how to share intimately- words, actions and your sexual life.